(Source: s0deezy)
Alright I havnt been on here in a long ass time and prolly have no followers anymore but really, wanted to say something that may not have been tweet friendly given my audience..
The whole “How come dudes can have sex with as many girls as they want but if a girl has sex with a handful she’s a slut” argument. Keep in mind I am in no way promoting being a “player” and I also am proud of the fact that my number sits at an unimpressive, yet happy, one.
This argument is based entirely on effort. Really, how hard is it for a girl to get laid if she truly wanted to? If you say it is difficult, please. You’re far too picky. All said girl has to be is willing, find a guy, and give herself up. Simply be in the right place at the right time. I would argue that she is fully capable of controlling where the right place is, as well as when the right time is, unless said girl is utterly repulsive. In which case.. I apologize.
But for a dude it is not the same. These guys you ladies so easily call “players” put in a lot of effort. They have to look decent or even quite nice. They must be a smooth talker as well as know the right things to say. They must be very confident in themselves. They have to be sneaky, in order to maintain talking to a number of women if they so choose and these things require effort.
Women do not just fall in your lap without you making prior moves unless you’re rich, or you’re famous, or it’s your girlfriend, or the girl decided that it is the right time and the right place.
Seriously. It’s an effort thing. It is easy for women. Consider this; how many not-so-good-looking sluts do you know? Probably quite a few. How many ugly players do you know?
